8/7/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
We are in the middle of three weekends of listening to the stories of some of Jesus’s miracles as told in Matthew’s gospel. In my Friday reflections for these weeks I will share a poem that invites us to encounter these miracle stories in a new light or with a fresh perspective.
This weekend we will hear Matthew’s story of Jesus walking on water. Below is the poem “Walking Water” by Wyatt Townley.
I invite you to set aside a time of prayer to read the gospel passage, linked here, and to read the poem. You may then want to meditate or journal with one or more of the following questions:
What stands out to you, what word or image or phrase shimmers for you, in the scripture passage? In the poem?
What inspires or excites you in these texts? What challenges you or makes you uncomfortable?
What connections do you hear between the scripture passage, the poem, and your own life with God?
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
Walking Water by Wyatt Townley
Inside us the ocean
sways like a cradle
in which we rock rock
and are drawn like the tide
to the moon twice a day
we carry our water and it carries us
we are a good pail with legs
foot by foot on the turning
mountain of the world
water walking on the prairie
walking water on the road
up the stairs through a door
where the view rushes out of us
through the window to the woods
rushing water in the desert
rushing water in this chair
and that one you’re in
water walking
and what is solid is not at all
what we thought the rock
worn away by the rocking
Source: Rewriting the Body (Stephen F. Austin Press, 2018).
7/31/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
After engaging with Jesus’ parables in the gospel of Matthew the last three weeks, we are now entering three weeks of listening to Matthew’s telling of Jesus’s miracles: multiplying loaves and fishes, walking on water, healing.
In my Friday reflections I will share a poem that invites us into these miracle stories, to hear them perhaps differently, in a new way. This weekend we will hear Matthew’s story of Jesus and the disciples feeding 5,000 people with a few loaves and fish. Below is the poem “Logos” by Mary Oliver.
I invite you to set aside a time of prayer to read the gospel passage, linked here, and to read the poem. You may then want to meditate or journal with one or more of the following questions:
What stands out to you, what word or image or phrase shimmers for you, in the scripture passage? In the poem?
What inspires or excites you in these texts? What challenges you or makes you uncomfortable?
What connections do you hear between the scripture passage, the poem, and your own life with God?
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
Logos by Mary Oliver
Why worry about the loaves and fishes?
If you say the right words, the wine expands.
If you say them with love
and the felt ferocity of that love
and the felt necessity of that love,
the fish explode into many.
Imagine him, speaking,
and don’t worry about what is reality,
or what is plain, or what is mysterious.
If you were there, it was all those things.
If you can imagine it, it is all those things.
Eat, drink, be happy.
Accept the miracle.
Accept, too, each spoken word
spoken with love.
Source: Devotions (Penguin Press, 2017).
7/24/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
This weekend we will hear several of Jesus’s “kingdom of heaven” parables from the gospel of Matthew, including the parable of the mustard seed:
Jesus put before the crowds another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed that someone took and sowed in his field; it is the smallest of all the seeds, but when it has grown it is the greatest of shrubs and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches.” (Matthew 13:31-32)
This parable has me thinking of daisy fleabane—the photo above is daisy fleabane growing in one of my garden beds. Many consider this plant a weed, and yet it is an extraordinarily important native plant, an ecosystem unto itself, supporting pollinators and making the soil ready for other native plants. Fleabane is also beautiful—the flowers remind me of little sparks, little stars, of scattered light—some white, some with a purple tinge. They open and close in response to sunlight. You can watch a video here about how marvelous this plant is.
The mustard plant was considered a weed in Jesus’s time, just like fleabane is in our time. What might Jesus mean when he describes the kingdom of heaven as being like a seed that grows up into a weed? How might the parables we will hear this weekend (found here in the Common English Bible translation) be in conversation with the parable of the sower and the parable of the wheat and weeds, which we have listened to the last two weekends? Which parables about the kingdom of heaven in this group speak to you, enliven your curiosity or puzzlement or creativity? Using examples from your own life, how would you finish the sentence, “the kingdom of heaven is like __________?”
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
7/17/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
We are staying with the farming and ecological parables of Jesus in the gospel of Matthew—last weekend we heard the parable of the sower/farmer/seeds/soils, and this weekend we will hear the parable of the weeds and the wheat.
Some of you have sent me photos or spoken with me about your own gardens, and above I have shared an image of a section of one wild garden bed from our own yard: black-eyed susans and mountain mint.
Alex and I have a tool called “Grandpa’s weeder” that we use to go out and pull up dandelions in our yard. I have been thinking about the dandelions, which are cheerful and multiple and abundant—they sow like the sower in last week’s parable, they multiply and feed other insects, they are abundant in ways that match the ways Jesus describes the kingdom of God in the gospels, and yet I consider them weeds.
Some questions I am holding as I go out to weed and dead-head and water and prune:
What do we consider weeds? Why? In what ways is the kingdom of God that Jesus describes in the gospel parables like weeds? In what ways is it like wheat?
What might we learn from both the weeds and the wheat about the kingdom of God and apply it to the gardens of our own lives, as we grow together?
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
7/3/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
As we celebrate Independence Day today and tomorrow, I invite us to pause and join in prayer for and with one another, for this land we inhabit, and for all lands and peoples. As a resource for our prayers, below please find “A Litany for Independence Day Weekend,” written by the Rev. Thomas Blake and shared by the Episcopal Diocese of Connecticut.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
A Litany for Independence Day Weekend
God of every nation and people, you made from one blood all the peoples of the earth, and sent your Son to proclaim good news of peace and liberty: Receive now our prayers for this land, and for all the nations of the world.
Lord, hear our prayer.
For the gifts of ordered liberty and common law; for the ancient witness of chartered rights and accountable rulers; for the hope kindled through the inheritance of the English-speaking peoples—through parliament and petition, through the restraint of tyranny, through the long labour toward constitutional government:
We give you thanks, O Lord.
For all in every generation who sought justice and mercy; for those who defended conscience against coercion; for those who taught that rulers stand beneath your judgment and that every person bears your image:
We give you thanks, O Lord.
For the courage of those who declared that all are created equal, and endowed with dignity that no earthly power may rightly erase; for aspirations toward liberty and justice for all; for the freedoms of speech, worship, assembly, and conscience:
We give you thanks, O Lord.
For the peaceful transfer of power, for representative government, for courts that seek justice, for citizens who labour for the common good, for all who have preserved democratic institutions in times of peril:
We give you thanks, O Lord.
For movements that enlarged the promise of liberty—for the abolition of slavery, for the struggle for civil rights,for the extension of voting rights, for the witness of women and men who marched, prayed, preached, organized, and sacrificed so that the nation might more fully reflect your righteousness:
We give you thanks, O Lord.
For those who served among the nations of the world to resist tyranny and cruelty; for cooperation among peoples after times of war; for efforts toward peace, relief, healing, and shared human dignity; for all who labour internationally for health, justice, and the protection of life:
We give you thanks, O Lord.
For scientists and teachers, labourers and artists, farmers and builders, immigrants and refugees, for Indigenous wisdom and endurance, for the varied peoples who together form this nation:
We give you thanks, O Lord.
Yet, O God, before the brightness of your holiness, we confess the shadows of our history and our present.
Have mercy upon us and forgive us, O Lord.
For the violent seizure of lands, for broken treaties and contempt toward Indigenous peoples; for cultures dishonoured, communities destroyed, and children taken from their families:
Have mercy upon us and forgive us, O Lord.
For slavery and the buying and selling of human lives; for racism enshrined in law and custom; for lynching, segregation, exclusion, and inequity; for the persistence of prejudice in our hearts and systems:
Have mercy upon us and forgive us, O Lord.
For wealth pursued without compassion, for freedoms denied to the poor, for indifference to the suffering of strangers, for violence in our streets and cruelty in our speech:
Have mercy upon us and forgive us, O Lord.
For times when this nation has acted arrogantly among the nations; for interventions marked more by domination than justice; for policies that sowed fear, exploitation, or resentment; for every betrayal of the dignity of other peoples and cultures:
Have mercy upon us and forgive us, O Lord.
For the worship of power, for nationalism that forgets our neighbours, for cynicism and falsehood, for despair of the common good, and for every refusal to seek reconciliation and truth:
Have mercy upon us and forgive us, O Lord.
Teach us to cherish our country without making it an idol. Give us gratitude without triumphalism, patriotism without bitterness, and repentance without despair.
Renew us in righteousness and peace.
Make us a people who welcome the stranger, defend the vulnerable, speak truth with humility, and strive for justice with perseverance.
Renew us in righteousness and peace.
Grant that the liberty we celebrate may be joined to responsibility, the rights we claim to compassion, and the power we possess to service.
Renew us in righteousness and peace.
Inspire the Church in this land to be not the servant of any earthly power, but a faithful witness to the kingdom of Christ: proclaiming mercy, defending dignity, and calling all people to repentance and hope.
Renew us in righteousness and peace.
O God, whose blessed Son was called the Prince of Peace: Grant that all the peoples of the earth, divided and enslaved by sin, may be freed and brought together under his gracious rule; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever.
Amen.
Source: The Rev. Thomas Blake, shared on the website of the Episcopal Church in Connecticut
6/26/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Summer blessings to you! It was a gift to be away for some time of rest and travel, and it is a gift to return home and to be with you all. One of the things Alex and I love to do when we travel is to visit museums, and one of our stops on our road trip was the Clark Art Institute in the Berkshires. One of my favorite things about the Clark is that they also use their outdoor space of ~ 2 miles of wooded trails and pasture as a gallery. The current outdoor exhibit is called Ground/work 2025. Artists from around the world work with the landscape to co-create sculptures of change, that visitors can encounter as they walk along the trails. All of the works are striking. I was particularly moved by Laura Ellen Bacon’s work Gathering my Thoughts, an in-place weaving together of willow branches into a sculpture that is also a habitat and shelter for other creatures and, in the artist’s words, “would grow together and grow into the place and grow from the place and within the place.” The sculpture reminded me of a nest and all of the birds that are currently nesting, and it also reminded me of God who weaves and knits us and all things in and into Creation, as in Psalm 139.
How do you see, or long to see, God’s weaving at work around you? How might we pray and act for God to weave us into good habitat and shelter for Christ, and for our human, animal, and plant neighbors?
In these early summer days, may we remember, praise, and draw near to God, who has woven us and is weaving us together with one another in the Body of Christ and in Creation.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
6/5/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
A note that beginning this Sunday afternoon, June 7th, Alex and I will be heading out for a few weeks of vacation, rest and re-creation. I will return on Wednesday, June 24th. It feels like a particular blessing to be able to move into a time of rest as we enter the long green season after Pentecost, also known as Ordinary Time. This is the time in the Church calendar that matches our own time, the time we live in—the Holy Spirit has arrived and is always arriving, inviting and compelling us to enter more deeply into relationship with God, with one another, and with God’s creation. In the northern hemisphere, the beginning of the season of Ordinary Time corresponds with our greening, growing season of late spring and early summer. This green season is a wonderful time to ask: How is the Holy Spirit moving in our lives and in our church? How will we respond? What is God growing and greening in our communities and relationships, and how are we called to participate in what God is doing?
We will hear an example of response to holy change in our Gospel reading this weekend:
“As Jesus continued on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at a kiosk for collecting taxes. He said to him, ‘Follow me,’ and he got up and followed him.” (Matthew 9:9)
In this life-changing moment, Matthew leaves his old life behind and follows Jesus into a new life, a new way of being. He doesn’t know what that new life will be. Jesus makes him no promises, only calls him to follow. Matthew hears, trusts, gets up, and follows, to travel a new road with Christ.
I pray that we each find space, in this green, growing season, amid the joys and sorrows of our lives, to pay attention to the ways the Holy Spirit is moving, the ways that Jesus is calling us into new ways of being, and then to have the courage to follow.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
5/29/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
A few notes about our worship this weekend and in the season ahead:
- This Saturday May 30th, due to musician travel, our Saturday 5p Eucharist will be a spoken service with no hymns. While we love making a joyful noise together, in our very noisy world, holy silence is a gift, and we will be invited to partake of that gift this Saturday.
- At our 9a Sunday services, starting this week and through the summer “greening” season after Pentecost, Holy Eucharist will be celebrated from our smaller altar on the floor at the crossing (like it is at the 5p). This summer change will allow all of us to gather more closely together around Christ’s table.
This weekend in both of our services we will celebrate the Holy Trinity. During the homily, I will invite us to spend some time with Andrei Rublev’s icon of the Holy Trinity, above. Before we gather for worship, you may wish to spend some time in prayer with the icon. Click here for a “praying with an icon guide” from the School of Contemplative Life.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
5/22/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Blessings as we prepare to celebrate the feast of Pentecost together! I invite you to wear red, the color of the Holy Spirit, to our worship services this weekend. Pentecost is also known as the feast of the Holy Spirit and the birthday of the Church.
As we worship, we will hear two tellings from Scripture of the way the Holy Spirit comes to Jesus’s earliest followers. In one, from the second chapter of Acts, the Spirit arrives noisily with wind and fire, taking hold of the disciples so that they speak in many languages about the mighty acts of God. And in our Gospel reading from John we will hear how the resurrected Jesus appeared to his disciples and breathed the Holy Spirit over them, from his wounded side, speaking words of peace, connection, sending, and forgiveness to them.
One of the gifts of our Anglican and Episcopal tradition is that it invites us to live intentionally into the rhythms of the liturgical year. Our liturgical calendar is not a repetitive circle, but rather an ever-deepening spiral of prayer and practice. As we move through our lives by the calendar of the Church, alongside the changing circumstances of our lives and the lives of the community and world around us, we are invited to experience the seasons and days of feasting and fasting in ways that draw us closer to God in Christ.
This year, which Pentecost story resonates with you and your experience of the Holy Spirit, in this particular season of your life? How might you ask God for the Spirit to show up, in your life, in the life of the Church, in the life of the world? Are you praying and yearning for a noisy arrival with flame and wind? Or for the quiet breath of Jesus?
If you are seeking to engage more deeply with the Holy Spirit in prayer, I commend to you this Novena to the Holy Spirit, shared by St. Mark’s Berkeley. A novena is a nine day prayer cycle, and this particular version is from Saint Augustine’s Prayer Book (The Rev. David Cobb and Derek Olsen, editors, published by Forward Movement on behalf of the Order of the Holy Cross, 2014).
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
5/15/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
I am writing this on Thursday, May 14th, the Feast of the Ascension—the day when the risen Jesus ascends to heaven, promising his disciples that he will send the Holy Spirit to them. There are two accounts of the Ascension in Scripture: Luke 24:44-53 and Acts 1:1-11.
In these next days of our church calendar, between the Feasts of the Ascension and Pentecost, our tradition invites us into intentional prayer around Jesus’s holy presence and holy absence, and around active attentiveness and expectation for what God is doing and will do through the power of the Holy Spirit.
Below is a sonnet for Ascension Day, written by poet Malcolm Guite. You can read his further reflections on the Ascension, and listen to him read this poem, by clicking here.
Yours in Christ, with Ascension blessings,
Melissa+
We saw his light break through the cloud of glory
Whilst we were rooted still in time and place
As earth became a part of Heaven’s story
And heaven opened to his human face.
We saw him go and yet we were not parted
He took us with him to the heart of things
The heart that broke for all the broken-hearted
Is whole and Heaven-centred now, and sings,
Sings in the strength that rises out of weakness,
Sings through the clouds that veil him from our sight,
Whilst we our selves become his clouds of witness
And sing the waning darkness into light,
His light in us, and ours in him concealed,
Which all creation waits to see revealed.
Source: Malcolm Guite, Sounding the Seasons: Seventy sonnets for the Christian year. Canterbury Press, 2012.
5/8/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Our Scripture readings for the sixth Sunday of Easter converge beautifully with our secular celebration of Mothers’ Day in the United States. The passages we will hear together this weekend remind us of the awe we experience in the presence of God our Creator and the love we experience in the presence of God our Parent. In our reading from Acts we will hear St. Paul teach that we are God’s “offspring,” that God “gives to all mortals life and breath and all things,” that in God “we live and move and have our being.” Psalm 66 reminds us that God, “holds our souls in life.” And in John’s gospel, Jesus tells his disciples and us that he will not leave us “orphaned,” but rather that we are in him and he is in us.
There is so much that is complex, mystical, beautiful, and strange about these texts. As I read and pray with them in conversation with the falling of Mothers’ Day (a day that can bring complex feelings of gratitude, sadness, celebration, tenderness, grief, and joy), I am reminded of one of my favorite theologians, the mystic St. Julian of Norwich. Perhaps St. Julian will make an appearance in my sermon this weekend (as I write this, it is too early to tell yet). For now, below is part of Julian’s theology of the Motherhood of God, the Motherhood of Christ, in poem form.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
God is Our Mother, by Julian of Norwich (1342–1416)
Thus Jesus Christ who does good for evil is our true mother;
we have our being from him where the ground of motherhood begins,
with all the sweet protection of love which follows eternally.
God is our mother as truly as he is our father;
and he showed this in everything,
and especially in the sweet words where he says,
‘It is I’, that is to say,
‘It is I: the power and goodness of fatherhood.
It is I: the wisdom of motherhood.
It is I: the light and the grace which is all blessed love.
It is I: the Trinity.
It is I: the unity.
I am the sovereign goodness of all manner of things.
It is I that make you love.
It is I that make you long.
It is I: the eternal fulfilment of all true desires.’
Source: Julian of Norwich, Revelation(s) of Divine Love. Translated from the Middle English, translator unknown, shared by Michael Fitzpatrick in the Journey with Jesus poetry blog, who also shares the following: “Julian of Norwich was an English mystic and anchoress of the Middle Ages. Her writings…are the earliest surviving English language works by a publicly-authored woman. They are also the only surviving English language works by an anchoress. Both the Roman Catholic Church and the Anglican communion regard Julian as a saint.”
5/1/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
This week’s lectionary readings use theological and worldly images of stones and building: stones that hurt and kill in our reading from Acts, our call to be “living stones” in the first letter of Peter, God as our “strong rock” in Psalm 31, Jesus preparing a place for us in God’s expansive and roomy house in John’s gospel.
This poetic imagery of stones and building has been with me this week as I gathered with many of the clergy of our diocese for our annual clergy conference. Our keynote speaker this year was one of my favorite artists and teachers: the poet, peacemaker, and theologian Pádraig Ó Tuama, who graciously led us through explorations of poetry in Scripture and Scripture-adjacent poetry, and through the writing of prayers and poems and prayer-poems and poem-prayers. I highly recommend his books and his podcast, Poetry Unbound—theology, religion, prayer, and spirituality are major themes in what he shares with the world.
Below is an excerpt from an essay that Padraig wrote, called “Oremus,” which in Latin means, “Let us pray.” Padraig’s words include the same kinds of imagery of stones and of death and resurrection that we will hear this weekend in our readings. As we listen and pray together, may we live into God’s call to us to be “living stones,” used by God, not to trip up or destroy, but to be built up as shelter for Christ and for one another.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
From the essay “Oremus,” by Pádraig Ó Tuama:
“Prayer, like poetry, like breath, like our own names, has a fundamental rhythm in our bodies. It changes, it adapts, it varies from the canon. It sings, it swears, it is syncopated by the rhythm underneath the rhythm, the love underneath the love, the rhyme underneath the rhyme, the name underneath the name, the welcome underneath the welcome, the prayer beneath the prayer. So let us pick up the stones over which we stumble, friends, and build altars. Let us listen to the sound of breath in our bodies. Let us listen to the sounds of our own voices, of our own names, of our own fears. Let us name the harsh light and soft darkness that surround us. Let’s claw ourselves out from the graves we’ve dug. Let’s lick the earth from our fingers. Let us look up and out and around. The world is big and wide and wild and wonderful and wicked, and our lives are murky, magnificent, malleable, and full of meaning. Oremus. Let us pray.”
~ from Daily Prayers with the Corrymeela Community (Canterbury Press Norwich, 2017)
4/17/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
This weekend we will hear the gospel story in Luke 24:13-35 of the two disciples on the Emmaus road and their extraordinary encounter with the resurrected Jesus. I commend to you this week a reflection from the Salt Project, in which an artist and two poets imagine the Emmaus story from a different perspective:
Two “Emmaus” Poems: Denise Levertov and Natasha Trethewey
As you pray with the gospel story, Velázquez’s painting and the poems by Trethewey and Levertov, what do you notice? Where is God drawing your attention? How might the Emmaus story connect with your life today?
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
4/10/26
Blessed, blessed Easter to you and yours. In these chilly spring days, I have been watching and listening to the birds. In the charm of goldfinches that visits our feeder daily, I have been noticing the changing of the color of the males as they undergo their spring molt… they are now beginning to match the daffodils—I call them the “bright boys.” I also went this past week, at dusk, to a local wildlife conservation area in the South Coast that is specifically managed for American woodcocks (who have a variety of fun names, like timberdoodle). At this time of year, in March and early April, after sunset, the male woodcock puts on an extraordinary show in open fields and meadows around the northeastern US. I had never seen a woodcock before, so this was a first for me…the males emerge from the woods into the meadow after sunset, and begin calling from the ground, with a distinctive “PEENT!” Then they take off, and they fly straight up and around in a high wide circle, so high and fast I lost sight of them, their wings making fluted twittering sounds as they go, and then they come back, corkscrewing with a wild whistle before they land a few feet from where they started, where they once again begin to “PEENT!” They repeat this show again and again, and the female woodcocks, if impressed, come out to find the males at their “PEENT-ing” spot. You can see a video of this whole thing here (which at the end also shows the woodcock’s strange and wonderful dance moves, thought to either be a way for them to sense or attract worms in the ground, or to confuse predators), but I highly recommend seeking out and experiencing the woodcocks in-person yourself. It was a profoundly moving Easter experience of delight and uplift, of being drawn out of myself and skyward, and of the new life of God’s creation and of my fellow creatures.
In other bird-related theology, I commend to you this Easter week reflection from Victoria Emily Jones’ Art and Theology blog: Christ is the Song, featuring the hymn “The Song of the Birds” | Words by Arthur Cleveland Coxe, 1862 | Music by Wilder Adkins, 2023 | Performed by Wilder Adkins with Eliza King on Cardiphonia’s Resurrect, vol. 1, 2023.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
4/3/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
I heard one of the best theological explanations of why some Christians bless themselves with the sign of the cross on a podcast… I can’t remember which one… apologies for lack of citation/attribution… in my memory, a listener called or wrote in because they were curious about the practice, as they were feeling drawn to try crossing themselves, but they wanted to know what it meant, as they had grown up hearing that it was superstitious. The host of the podcast responded so beautifully - he said that when he blesses himself with the sign of the cross it is not to ward off evil or protect himself from something. When he makes the sign of the cross over his body it is a prayer that God would open him to all that is holy, and that God might grant him the courage to be an open channel of Christ’s peace with others, especially with those who are suffering.
I love this. This body prayer of marking ourselves with the cross is not a prayer that closes us off, but rather a prayer of opening ourselves up to encounters with God, with one another, and with God’s creation. To bless our bodies with the sign of the cross is a good prayer for Holy Week, when we remember how God took the Cross, a terrible human instrument of violent torture and death, and showed us that violence and death do not have the last word. God made the Cross of Christ to be an open portal of grace, overflowing with divine mercy, forgiveness, and new life.
How does it feel for you to pray by blessing yourself with the sign of the cross? Is it a way of praying that you practice, or don’t practice, or stopped practicing, or want to practice? If you are feeling drawn to pray in this way and are feeling shy, try crossing yourself when you are alone with God.
In terms of “how,” there are variations… I was taught in the Western tradition of fingertips to forehead, then to center/bottom of ribcage, then left shoulder, right shoulder, and sometimes coming back again to the heart/sternum. There is also the tradition of marking the sign of the cross on your forehead with your thumb… when I encounter a body of water I dip my thumb in and mark my forehead as a way to open to and connect with God’s Creation, to remember that I am God’s creature, and to remember that I have been marked as Christ’s own in Baptism.
In worship some folks cross themselves at certain times. Some folks trace a cross on their foreheads, lips, and hearts before the proclamation of the Gospel—this is a body prayer asking that our minds, lips, and hearts will be open to receiving and sharing Good News. And some folks make a full body cross at the opening acclamation, at the absolution, during the Creed when we affirm belief in the resurrection of the body, during the Eucharistic Prayer when the presider calls upon the Holy Spirit to sanctify us and unify us with God in Christ, and at the final blessing. These are liturgical and theological “openings” in our collective worship—moments when we may feel moved to physically and bodily cross ourselves as a prayer to be opened to the forgiving, blessing, and saving work of God.
May we be blessed and blessings in these Cross-shaped days, and opened to God’s grace every day,
Melissa+
3/27/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Arriving at Holy Cross monastery for retreat, and walking down the hill from the parking lot, I noticed, first, the silvery Hudson River, and then, a generous circle of yellow and white crocuses on a small green in front of the entrance to the guest house. The third thing I noticed was the plaque above the door, which reads: “Crux est mundi medicina,” Latin for “the Cross is medicine for the world.” These open spaces—watery, flowery, and a Cross-marked healing doorway for all—invited me into a time of rest and prayer at Holy Cross.
As we enter Holy Week together, what open spaces might God be inviting you to encounter? What shape are these spaces? Circular, cross-shaped, meadow- or river-shaped, blossom-shaped, stony, community shaped, shell-shaped, heart-shaped, honeycombed, some other shape?
In your private prayer time you might draw the shape of this open space. Ask God to be with you there, as we sojourn through these holy days together, watching Christ, watching with Christ, watching for Christ.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
3/13/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Our gospel readings from John this season feature encounters with Jesus that bring about questions and the seeking of answers. Nicodemus, the Samaritan woman at the well, and this weekend, the man born blind, all meet Jesus and have their lives changed by questions—their questions, Jesus’s questions, and the questions of those around them. So often in our world and culture and lives we want answers. Jesus asks us to live differently. Jesus asks us to live into the questions. Below is a poem from Lucille Clifton that honors a life of questions and answers.
Dear ones, I must share with you that I have been working too many hours (averaging close to 60 per week) these past months, and my health is suffering for it. My care team has advised me that this pace is unsustainable, particularly given the cancer treatment medication I must continue to take, which causes me to have chronic fatigue. I have reached out for help from our diocese and also from our vestry.
In the middle to longer term, vestry and myself, with diocesan support, will work together to ask questions, such as: what does a healthy and sustainable ministry of full-time priesthood look like at Christ Church, and how do we live into that together? In the short term, the Rev. Canon Kelly O’Connell and Bishop Julia have given me the pastoral guidance to take an extra day off each week through the beginning of April, and during Holy Week, to only celebrate and preach Palm Sunday and Easter weekend services with you. Our Holy Week services Wednesday through Friday will be led by lay leaders, Deacon James and Deacon Natalie, and a guest priest to celebrate Maundy Thursday. I am grateful for this support.
Additionally, this coming week I will be away for a planned Lenten retreat from Monday March 16th through Monday March 23rd. I will not have access to internet or cell phone service during this time. Deacon Natalie and Deacon James will lead worship on the weekend of March 21st and 22nd, and we have coverage for emergency pastoral needs. Please know I will be praying for you while I am away, and I covet your prayers as well, for deep rest and restoration, and for all of the listening and questions that intentional time with God may bring.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
questions and answers, by Lucille Clifton
what must it be like
to stand so firm, so sure?
in the desert even the saguaro
hold on as long as they can
twisting their arms in
protest or celebration.
you are like me,
understanding the surprise
of jesus, his rough feet
planted on the water
the water lapping
his toes and holding them.
you are like me, like him
perhaps, certain only that
the surest failure
is the unattempted walk.
Source: The Collected Poems of Lucille Clifton 1965-2010 (BOA Editions Limited, 2015). Shared by Sara-Kay Mooney in her 2026 Lenten poetry-sharing series.
3/6/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
For our mutual reflection, care, and ministry in this time of war, I commend to you the invitation to prayer below and at this link from our siblings in Christ, the Armed Forces chaplains of the Episcopal Diocese of Long Island. May their witness and words be a balm to you as they have been to me.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
An Invitation to Prayer in a Time of War
February 28, 2026
Dear Friends in Christ,
Grace and peace to you.
In the wake of recent U.S. military strikes against Iran, we write to you as the Armed Forces Chaplains of the Diocese of Long Island—pastors who walk daily alongside service members, veterans, and families, and who also stand with you in prayer as members of the Body of Christ.
Moments like this often arrive through an unrelenting stream of alerts, images, commentary, and speculation. The pace itself can become its own source of distress. We invite you, first of all, to pause. To take a breath. To pray.
Prayer in a time of war is not escape. It is grounding. It steadies us when fear seeks to scatter us. It reminds us that behind every uniform and every border are human beings—beloved children of God—on all sides of conflict. It calls us back to our deepest identity before any other name claims us.
We also encourage a gentle attentiveness to how we take in the news. Consider limiting your intake. Choose trusted, measured sources rather than endless scrolling or reactive commentary. Ask yourself why you are checking the news in a given moment: Is it to stay responsibly informed, or is it feeding anxiety, anger, or helplessness? Information has its place. So does restraint. Wisdom often lies in knowing when to turn toward the light of prayer rather than the noise of speculation.
As chaplains, we are reminded daily that readiness is not only a matter of strength or preparedness. It is spiritual. It is the quiet, faithful work of tending the inner life so that anxiety does not isolate us, grief does not harden us, and fear does not eclipse compassion. Return to the practices that root you: prayer, scripture, silence, honest conversation, time with those you love.
Be gentle with one another. Many around you may be carrying unspoken worry. Reach out. Stay connected. Listen deeply. These small acts are not small at all. They are how peace is practiced.
For Christians, prayer in times of war is also an act of faithful resistance. We follow Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace, whose life reveals that love is stronger than violence and mercy deeper than fear. To pray for peace is not naïve. It is courageous. It is to align our hearts with God’s future even when the present feels uncertain.
We invite you to pray:
For all who live under the shadow of violence.
For those who serve, and for those who wait and worry at home.
For leaders, that wisdom, restraint, and humility may guide their decisions.
For the wounded in body, mind, and spirit.
For a world aching for peace, and for the grace to be instruments of it.
If this moment stirs deep anxiety or distress, please do not carry it alone. Reach out to your clergy. If you are clergy, reach out to a colleague or your spiritual director. Reach out to trusted friends. Seek help when you need it. Caring for our spiritual and emotional well-being is an act of faithfulness.
In this season of Lent:
May the God who brings light out of chaos breathe calm into troubled hearts.
May the Christ who stretched out his arms in love hold all who suffer.
May the Spirit who hovers over the waters guide us in the way of peace.
With prayer and solidarity,
The Armed Forces Chaplains of the Diocese of Long Island
The Rev. Canon Landon Moore, The Rev. Jenn Pilat, The Rev. James Reiss, The Rev. Dr. Benjamin Shambaugh, The Very Rev. Dr. Michael Sniffen
2/20/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Blessed Lent to you. The word Lent can be traced back to an Old English word meaning “to lengthen,” and for us in the Northern hemisphere this 40 day season in our Church calendar corresponds with the daylight hours lengthening, the stems of the first crocuses (yes, they are coming!) lengthening. And so we are asked, too, to lengthen and stretch and turn more intentionally toward God, which involves intentionally turning away from the habits that hinder us from loving God, loving ourselves, and loving our neighbors. Lent is a season when we Christians imitate Jesus’s 40 days in the wilderness. In Lent we prepare, through prayer, penitence, fasting, sacrificial giving, meditation with Holy Scripture, and service, to follow Jesus through the cross-shaped death that leads to new life.
Each year, the Church gives us the gift of Lent, a season that starts by reminding us, on Ash Wednesday, that we are going to die. And then, Lent asks, “How will you live?”
Jesus says this another way, in all four Gospels: “All who want to save their lives will lose them. But all who lose their lives because of me and because of the good news will save them.” (Mark 8:35, see also: Matthew 10:39, Matthew 16:25, Luke 9:24, John 12:25)
This week, whether your heart feels frozen in a winter snow bank or warmed by the sound of the cardinal’s spring song, may you know that God is with you, and may this Lenten season of stretching, and lengthening, and spaciousness bless you richly.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
2/13/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
This weekend, the last before we enter the season of Lent, we will hear the gospel of Matthew’s version of the Transfiguration. I have been praying with poet Malcolm Guite’s reflection and sonnet on the Transfiguration, which also features art from Rebecca Merry.
Click here to engage and pray with Guite’s and Merry’s art and to hear a reading of the sonnet.
Guite’s sonnet is below. Here are some questions we may want to ponder at this hinge moment in our liturgical year, this time when we will be invited to remember that we are beloved dust, and to follow Jesus down the mountain and into the wilderness of Lent:
Where are you seeking and/or finding the “blaze” of the Light of Christ “leaping up” in you or in others in the world, in this season?
What, or who, has helped you to feel and remember “the Love that dances at the heart of things?” How might God be inviting you more deeply into that Love during Lent? What practices are you being invited to take on, or let go of, during Lent to allow more space to pay attention to, nourish, and connect with God’s Love?
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
Transfiguration, by Malcolm Guite
For that one moment, ‘in and out of time’,
On that one mountain where all moments meet,
The daily veil that covers the sublime
In darkling glass fell dazzled at his feet.
There were no angels full of eyes and wings
Just living glory full of truth and grace.
The Love that dances at the heart of things
Shone out upon us from a human face
And to that light the light in us leaped up,
We felt it quicken somewhere deep within,
A sudden blaze of long-extinguished hope
Trembled and tingled through the tender skin.
Nor can this blackened sky, this darkened scar
Eclipse that glimpse of how things really are.
Published in Sounding the Seasons: One Hundred and Ten Sonnets for the Christian Year, Enlarged Edition, Canterbury Press, 2024.
2/6/26
This weekend as we gather for worship and for our annual meeting on Sunday, we will hear Jesus calling us salt and light, ordinary elements of our everyday lives that bring change—salt changes the taste of things, melts things. Light offers new perspectives. In this time of change that we are living in together, how can we seek to be agents of God’s will and God’s change? How is Jesus calling us to be salty light-bearers today?
I engage with some of these questions in my annual report —as preparation for annual meeting, and as a devotional practice, I invite you to read and pray with our 2025 annual report, linked here and further down in Keeping Connected. With deep gratitude, join me in praying for our parish, our staff, our ministries and our many leaders and volunteers. And as we gather for annual meeting, I invite us to ponder and pray about these questions:
- How do you hear Jesus calling you to be salt and light, in your life?
- How do you hear Jesus calling us as a parish to be salt and light, together?
- Salt melts—in our ministry together, what structures might be freezing us in place and might need to be melted and transformed by our saltiness?
- Light shines—how will we continue to shine Christ’s light brightly with and for others in our community?
I look forward to being together, praying together, ministering together.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
1/30/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
As I write this, the sunlight reflecting off the snow shines brightly, and I crave its light, its warmth. In these bitterly cold days of winter, amid the heartbreaking violence in Minnesota and throughout our country, violence that harms and wounds the souls and bodies of victims, perpetrators, and witnesses, I turn my face toward the light of the sun, and toward the Light of Christ.
Jesus tells us and shows us how to respond faithfully in times of deep grief and heartbreak and violence.
In last Sunday’s gospel reading, after his teacher and mentor John the Baptist was unjustly arrested by the authorities of his time, Jesus “withdrew to Galilee” and called his first disciples. He did not withdraw and remain isolated by fear or grief—he withdrew and sought out others—disciples—inviting them to “follow” him in his ministry of teaching, of healing, and of proclaiming the good news of the nearness of God’s kingdom.
This weekend we will hear the Beatitudes from the gospel of Matthew. We will hear Jesus name the blessedness of the spiritually poor, the mourners, and the meek. The blessedness of those who hunger for righteousness. The blessedness of the merciful, the pure in heart, the peacemakers, the persecuted.
I invite us, in these days that are wintry on many levels, to keep turning our faces toward the Light of Christ, to be fed by Jesus’s presence in Word and Sacrament and one another, and to learn from him and his blessing, healing, nourishing, merciful, peacemaking way of the Cross, his Good News way of costly discipleship in solidarity with the most vulnerable. We are invited to follow him on this way, with the particular God-given gifts that we have, together.
I invite us, always, to pray. When you do not have the words, The Great Litany may be helpful, as may be the prayer below from Pádraig Ó Tuama.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
“A prayer in times of violence,” by Pádraig Ó Tuama, from the book Daily Prayer with the Corrymeela Community. Canterbury Press, Norwich: 2017. p. 43.
God of all humanity,
in times of violence
we see how inhuman we can be.
We pray for those who, today, are weighed down by grief.
We pray for those who, yesterday, were weighed down by grief.
And the day before,
and all the days before the day before.
We pray, too, for those who help us turn toward justice and peace.
Turn us all towards justice and peace
because we need it.
Amen.
1/23/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
This bitterly cold weekend, if your Christmas decorations are still up, if you are still in need of their light, or if you simply have not had the time to pack them up, leave them. While some take down their Christmas decorations after the Feast of the Epiphany on January 6th, many Christians around the world leave their mangers and lights up until February 2nd, the Feast of the Presentation, also known as Candlemas. The Feast of the Presentation is a different and later end to the Christmas season, when the last story of Jesus’s infancy in the gospel of Luke is read, about Jesus’s presentation in the temple, when the prophets Anna and Simeon witness and proclaim the Christ child’s light.
These Feasts of the Incarnation, the Epiphany, and the Presentation all share a theme of light. This is a season of light, when we remember and name Jesus as the Light of the World, shining on and in and through us.
In this weekend’s lectionary readings we will hear these words from the prophet Isaiah, twice:
“The people who walked in darkness
have seen a great light;
those who lived in a land of deep darkness--
on them light has shined.”
We will also hear Jesus tell his disciples that he will make them fishers of people. When I think about the intersection of fish and this season of Christ’s light, I think about the shininess of fish scales, and the ways schools of fish swim together, and create light simply by being who and what God has created them to be. I was delighted to learn this week, from the Art and Theology blog, that fish and this season of Christ’s light come together in a traditional Spanish Christmas carol, or villancico, called “En Belén Tocan al Fuego,” which translates loosely to “In Bethlehem they ring the bells of fire,” referring to the practice of sounding an alarm of village church bells when there was a fire—except in the song, the fire is the burning Light of Christ in the manger. The villancico has the following chorus, translated to English:
“Fish in the river are glistening and dancing,
Dancing and leaping to celebrate his birthday.”
You can listen to the carol in its original Spanish here, sung by the Coral Borrianenca, and partially translated to English here, sung by the Women’s Chorale of Calvin University.
May you be warmed by the fire of Christ’s light in these cold days, trusting that it shines in and through you, in and through us.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
1/16/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Last weekend in our worship we renewed our Baptismal promises together. One of those promises is to “strive for justice and peace among all people, and respect the dignity of every human being,” with God’s help.
This weekend, I invite you to join me in listening to and reading and praying with the words of our ancestor and exemplar in the Christian faith, the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., who dedicated his life to striving for justice and peace. Below are links to read, or listen to him reading, his Letter from a Birmingham Jail.
It is a long letter—pray and listen or read in sections if it is too long for one sitting. Pray and listen or read in 15 minute segments each morning or afternoon or evening. Listen to the Rev. Dr. King’s voice and words on your commute. Or while you are cooking dinner. Or while you are sitting still or while you are walking.
As you read or listen: What do you notice? What resonates with you? What inspires you or gives you hope? What convicts you or makes you uncomfortable? What do you hear in the Rev. Dr. King’s letter that speaks into our present moment today? What difference does what you have read or heard make for you, and for us, in our lives of following Christ?
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
Click here to listen to the Rev. Dr. King read his Letter From a Birmingham Jail
Click here for the full text of the Rev. Dr. King’s Letter From a Birmingham Jail
1/9/26
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Many Epiphanytide blessings to you and yours. Last weekend in our worship services we blessed chalk for the Epiphany tradition of chalking a blessing on the entrances to the places we call home. Some of you have sent me photos of your blessed doors and stairs. These photos have heartened me. In these days when we are experiencing terrible violence and enmity in our nation, we bless our thresholds, renewing our Christian commitment to welcome Jesus as our guest and to share his hospitality with others. Blessed chalk and a guide for blessing are still available at church (on the hallway table in front of you as you enter from the office door). And for those who are spending this season away from Plymouth, you can chalk and bless your own thresholds by using the resource at this link.
This weekend in our worship services we will hear Matthew’s version of the story of Jesus’s Baptism by John in the River Jordan and renew our Baptismal vows as we celebrate the Feast of the Baptism of Our Lord.
Above is an icon of Jesus’s Baptism, by the Ukrainian icon writer Ivanka Demchuk. As you read and pray with Matthew’s account of the Baptism (Matthew 3:13-17), and/or as you pray and meditate with the icon, here are a few questions to ponder:
- What word or phrase in the passage, or what part of the image, catches your attention? How might God be using that word, phrase, or image to speak to you?
- What excites, inspires, or consoles you in the Scripture passage and/or icon? What challenges you or makes you uncomfortable?
- What difference does Jesus’s Baptism make for you, in your own life of discipleship?
Yours in Christ,
Melissa +
12/26/25
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
Blessed Christmas to you! Whether your Christmastide is filled with travel, hosting, or quiet solitude, I pray that you will seek and find God’s provision, peace, and new life, Christ’s light born to us and in us.
On this day between hearing the earthy story of the lowly manger in the Gospel of Luke and the expansive poetic prologue of the Gospel of John (which we will hear this Saturday and Sunday in our worship), I share with you the poem below, by Michael Longley. I love how the poem approaches the mystery of the Incarnation, in Jesus, where heaven and earth meet, through the Lukan scene of Mary and her baby, and the Johannine cosmic Christ.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
Birth
By Michael Longley
The cosmos-shaper has come down to earth:
Mary is counting his fingers and toes.
Source: The Candlelight Master (Wake Forest University Press, 2020), shared by Sara Kay Mooney, Christmas 2022.
12/19/25
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
As we enter these last days of Advent, I am increasingly aware of the practice of waiting. Waiting each morning for Rusty the rare over-wintering western hummingbird to come to our heated feeder (yes, for those who heard my sermon back in October that featured Rusty, he is indeed still here, weathering snowstorms and sub-freezing temperatures). Waiting for when Alex and I had time to go get a Christmas tree (it was this past Monday). Waiting for Jesus to arrive, in bread and wine, in beginnings and endings, in the faces and presence of dear ones and neighbors and strangers, in the manger.
A gift I wait for each week during Advent, and again in Lent, is the poem that Sara-Kay Mooney shares each Sunday in these seasons. You can follow “Poems for the Season” through this link to Sara-Kay’s substack to receive these Advent and Lent treasures. This past Sunday she shared a poem about waiting, by Tony Hoagland. It is below, and one of the things I love about this poem is the way Marie’s movement between the hospital and the adoption agency illustrates the paradox of Christian waiting—both its stillness and its activity. Even and especially in the midst of death and the holding of a future that can feel heavy, we are called to keep watch together for resurrection and new life.
May you be blessed in the waiting of these threshold days, in all of your activity and your stillness.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
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Migration, by Tony Hoagland
This year Marie drives back and forth
from the hospital room of her dying friend
to the office of the adoption agency.
I bet sometimes she doesn’t know
What threshold she is waiting at—
the hand of her sick friend, hot with fever;
the theoretical baby just a lot of paperwork so far.
But next year she might be standing by a grave,
wearing black with a splash of
banana vomit on it,
the little girl just starting to say Sesame Street
and Cappuccino latte grand Mommy.
The future ours for a while to hold, with its heaviness—
and hope moving from one location to another
like the holy ghost that it is.
Source: What Narcissism Means To Me (Graywolf Press, 2003).
12/12/25
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
A reminder that this weekend at our services on Saturday at 5p and Sunday at 8a, we will celebrate Holy Eucharist as usual, and on Sunday at 10a we will celebrate this season of holy waiting, attentiveness, and preparation with a service of Advent Lessons and Carols.
In all three of these worship services, we will hear the words of prophets, including the Magnificat, the song of the prophet Mary, about the ways God’s powerful actions have been magnified in her life and in the life of the world. Mary is also, of course, the mother of Jesus, and when I pray the Magnificat (Luke 1:46-55), I also hear Jesus’s words in the Beatitudes (Luke 6:20-26).
“[God] has lifted up the lowly,” sings Mary. “Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God,” says Jesus.
“[God] has filled the hungry with good things,” sings Mary. “Blessed are you who are hungry now, for you will be filled,” says Jesus.
This week I am giving thanks for the prophet Mary’s bold faithfulness, and for how much Jesus must have learned from his blessed mother about who God is, and what God is up to in the world.
I invite you to pray with this video, “Magnificat,” from the SALT Project.
Yours in Christ,
Melissa+
12/5/25
Dear Ones of Christ Church,
It was a gift to gather with so many of you last Sunday to bless and make Advent wreaths in the parish hall. Many thanks to Lynne Neeley for her generous donations of materials and time and teaching. Lynne cut the branches for the wreaths herself from evergreens around her home, and after I made a wreath I loved the way my hands smelled sharply and cleanly of pine pitch and sap.
Talking with Lynne about how she had collected wreath branches for us from her neighbor trees reminded me of a reflection my spiritual director sent me last week by Amy Frykholm, describing how she makes her Advent wreath each year. Here’s an excerpt (you can read her entire reflection here):
For more than 20 years I have been making the same Advent wreath, although it is never an exact replica of the previous year’s attempt. It starts with a dish that can fit four candles around. Then I fill the dish with birdseed.
The next part is the most essential. I go out into the woods or the cemetery or the alleys, and I look for natural shapes and colors that are of the moment. The dried poppy heads are probably my favorite, because after the poppy has bloomed and the petals have fallen off, the remainder looks like a star, with a dark heart like a black hole.
But I also love how different each head of grass is. There is a stunning variety. For color I look for kinnikinnick berries and rose hips. I look for spruce branches and pine cones. The key to this searching is that whatever I find, it speaks to the now and the here. The reason I’ve kept this practice up is because in the deadness of early winter, I find beauty that never fails to surprise me.
I lay this bounty on the birdseed in whatever way inspires me. When Advent is over, I toss the whole thing near the bird feeder for what poet Ada Limón calls the “after party.”
Inspired by Lynne and Amy, on Monday I went out and snipped some rose hips from my garden and added them to our wreath. The wreath is now a holy combination of plants from my home place on the shores of Buzzards Bay, and plants from my church place, on the shores of Plymouth Bay.
This mixing of places seems right in a wreath made to mark a season that calls us to pay attention to the ways Jesus crosses boundaries of space and time and place to arrive among us—to arrive in the past as a baby; to arrive now, in our present encounters with one another, with bread and wine, with creation; and to arrive again in the future to reconcile all things to God at the end of time. Can an Advent wreath hold all of this, theologically? No. Maybe. I don’t know. But there is something about paying attention to the feel of evergreen needles, the scent of pine pitch, the sudden warmth when I cup my hand to light a candle, the sound or silence of a blessing, that helps me to pay attention to the One who holds all things, including us.
Yours in Christ, with Advent blessings,
Melissa+